First five minutes
- Move away from mirrors, scales, body-checking or social media that makes the thoughts louder.
- Say: my body is not an emergency to fix tonight.
- Do one neutral care action: water, food, warmth, rest or clean clothes.
What it can feel like
- Thinking about your face, weight, shape or skin over and over.
- Feeling disgusted, ashamed or watched in your own body.
- Comparing yourself constantly or feeling unable to enjoy the day because of how you look.
Why it can happen
- Body image distress can be linked to bullying, social media, trauma, eating difficulties, gender expectations, anxiety, depression or low self-worth.
- The mind can turn emotional pain into body criticism because the body feels like something to control.
What can help
- Aim for body neutrality before body positivity. You do not have to love your body to stop attacking it.
- Notice body-checking habits and reduce them gently rather than trying to force confidence.
- Speak to someone safe if thoughts about food, weight or appearance are taking over your day.
Free support options
- Read the eating disorders guide if food, restriction, purging or bingeing is involved.
- Speak to a GP, school nurse, counsellor or mental-health professional if this is affecting eating, safety or daily life.
Important note
This guide is for education and signposting. It cannot diagnose you or replace care from a qualified professional. If you feel at risk, seek urgent local help.
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