First five minutes
- If you are driving and feel unsafe, pull over somewhere safe as soon as you can.
- Turn the engine off, put the keys away, and do not continue driving while the urge is active.
- Call or message someone: I am too angry or unsafe to drive right now and I need help calming down.
What it can feel like
- Feeling furious, trapped, disrespected or deliberately provoked by other drivers.
- Imagining crashing, brake-checking, chasing or scaring someone.
- Having thoughts about ending your life through driving or taking someone with you.
Why it can happen
- Driving combines speed, risk, frustration, perceived threat and lack of control.
- Anger can spike when stress, depression, exhaustion, trauma, alcohol, substances or suicidal thoughts are already present.
What can help
- Create distance from the vehicle before analysing whether the thoughts were serious.
- Delay the journey, hand keys to someone else, use public transport, or ask someone to collect you if needed.
- If you might hurt yourself or another person, contact emergency services immediately.
Free support options
- Use urgent help if there is any immediate risk to you or someone else.
- Talk to a GP, crisis team, therapist or trusted person if these thoughts repeat.
Important note
This guide is for education and signposting. It cannot diagnose you or replace care from a qualified professional. If you feel at risk, seek urgent local help.
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